toddrhodes
Senior Member
- First Name
- Todd
- Joined
- May 21, 2018
- Threads
- 20
- Messages
- 705
- Reaction score
- 754
- Location
- Indiana
- Vehicle(s)
- '18 CTR #16979, '18 Odyssey
- Vehicle Showcase
- 1
Those people who get dismissive are simple - ignore them. Don't even worry about what they think or say as they have already used actual words to prove they have no idea on what they speak. It's actually convenient when/if people take that type of approach to my car - I didn't have to waste any time in getting to a conclusion. And the thing is, you won't change their minds. And, it's not just cars. I have several hobbies (cooking, audio gear, cars, golf) and in EVERY hobby, you have people like this. Maybe because I'm used to it it just rolls off my back but in the end, they're going to think what they want and are blissfully ignorant to reality.Ah but there is a difference. Its not that the "its just a civic" is said. In the manor of which you say it, its not a negative thing. You are proud of your civic and that it only cost 35k to get what you did. My issue, which I have clarified several times is the dismissive ones that when they know your "just a civic" can out perform their _____ fill in 50k plus car. They get but hurt and go for what they perceive as an insult "well so its just a civic". As if the brand or name of their slower car makes it somehow better then "just a civic". I actually got snarky with a guy last night at a meet. I normally don't in real life but 200 cars I was only R and he started oh I want something better and blah blah blah ive seen videos and blah blah blah its a Honda blah blah blah. So I was what is it you want to get? He goes oh Im looking at a mustang because they are so different.... UM? so all I said was different? Like my only type R and the 75 Mustangs that are here right now? I think he got the point and became a little less trash talking about the R before walking off.
It's the folks who take the opposite approach who are worth worrying about as they probably have a lot more valuable information to share.
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