charleswrivers
Senior Member
- First Name
- Charles
- Joined
- Nov 3, 2017
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- Location
- Kingsland, GA
- Vehicle(s)
- '14 Odyssey, '94 300zx, 2001 F-150
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Most of of us will never have $100k cars... $1 million homes... or be able to retire super early. Iām in that camp... but Iāve got a good balance and life is good. Still good to splurge now and then. When I had to cancel the ā20 Wake the Dragon and couldnāt do a summer vacation because I was on a travel restriction... I just had a small pool and deck put in. Itās been the best spring/summer yet... despite everything going on.I'm with you 100%. While my other half and I have always had "good" jobs, our cars were always at the higher end of what we could afford (monthly). A few years ago we very deliberately eliminated 100% of our debt and vowed to live well under our means no matter what. Now, through time luck and skill, we bring home a bit over $12K per month and spend maybe $4000 total per month on all of our expenses fixed and variable. I say that not to brag or show conceit, but actually - hopefully - to illustrate that I drive a new Si and she drives a 3 year old VW Jetta because we live WELL beneath our means. Each mod I do to this car I try to think through carefully and try to have the mindset of someone making say $40-$50K. If we were in this position 5-10 years ago, I can guarantee you I would be driving a new M3, she would drive a Range Rover, and I would probably even stretch to get a 911 as a third car. It's all too easy to be broke no matter how much money you make when you have the mindset that Income A must equal Possessions B.
Long story short for you younger people here: it's a fool's errand to own and mod an Si when you are only able to do it by loading up your credit cards, deferring student loans, etc. Take it from someone who used to live at 99.99999999% of his means when he was much younger.
Itās all about finding that balance and not spending so much of tomorrowās money today or failing to investing in your future that the future sucks while still enjoying today. May we all find that balance, whatever it is for each of us, that lets us be content today and not afraid of the future.
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